AI-powered dating searchPrivate & confidential

★★★★★One-time pricing and teaser review before full unlock

Discreet & secureNo recurring billing, no target alerts, and no account linking

Discover if your partner is still on dating apps

Start with the clues you already know, then add a recent face photo if you want AI-enhanced matching before teaser review.

Name + city + age intakeOptional AI photo matchingCheckout only after proof signal

What to prepare

The live intake currently uses a first or full name, age range, gender, and city as the main clues.

AI facial recognition is optional and works best with recent, clear face photos.

Likely app, travel city, and username-fragment clues are optional helpers, not guaranteed match signals.

Phone-number-only lookups are not part of this workflow.

Privacy receipt

Private intake stays limited to the clues you choose to submit.

Use the live intake for adult relationship clarity only. The form stays narrow, and the retention windows are visible before you send anything.

The live intake asks for a first or full name, age range, gender, city, and any optional clues or photos you decide to provide.
Optional analytics and preference storage stay off until you grant consent, but security screening and Cloudflare Turnstile may still challenge risky traffic.
No account linking, no target alerts, no direct contact, and no resale of your search data are part of this workflow.

Temporary fallback copies

If support or incident recovery needs a local fallback copy of an intake submission or upload, that copy is retained for up to 30 days.

Operational case records

Orders, transactions, and delivered result packages can remain in operational systems for up to 365 days unless deletion, refund, chargeback, or legal holds require different handling.

Consented analytics

Analytics events are retained for up to 180 days, and only when you opt into analytics cookies or storage.

Privacy controlsStart deletion or suppression review Privacy policyRead the full retention and deletion notice Transparency reportSee the private-first workflow and no-alert boundary Security protocolReview transport, access, and abuse controls

First or full name

Use the name field with age, gender, and city to narrow the search. If they use a nickname or alternate spelling, enable the AI nickname option below.

Use AI to account for nicknames, abbreviations, and alternate spellings they may be using.

Optional clues

Add only the extra clues you already know. They help prioritize review context and app choice, but they do not expand the workflow beyond Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge.

Likely app

Use this only when one app already looks more likely than the others.

Travel citiesComma-separated cities where the target is regularly active or traveling.Username fragmentsComma-separated fragments that may appear in a handle, bio, or alternate profile spelling.

Add AI facial recognition

+$9.99

Optional. Use this when you have a recent, clear face photo and want another review signal. It improves narrowing, but it does not guarantee a match on its own.

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Why this works

Manual app searching is inconsistent. The intake narrows the target first so the teaser can surface stronger candidates faster.

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What happens next

After you submit, the system prepares a teaser preview before the full unlock. You review signal before moving to checkout.

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What keeps it private

No target alerts, no account linking, and no direct contact with the person being searched during this stage.

User reassurance

Proof-first workflow.

People use OopsBusted when they need clarity without escalation. These are anonymized stories from the teaser and results flow.

Real names replaced with anonymized user stories

Ella Simmons, 27

St. Louis

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Knowing for sure that my boyfriend wasn’t using any dating apps gave me instant relief. The teaser alone helped me decide whether I needed the full unlock.

Jammal, 32

California

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I suspected cheating for a while but did not want to confront without proof. OopsBusted gave me a private way to check before escalating anything.

Jeff, 23

St. Louis

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The intake was straightforward, and the results confirmed what I had been worried about. It felt much easier than trying to search manually across apps.