Start by defining what you actually need to verify
Random texts from dating apps are not proof on their own. The challenge is separating generic spam from clues that actually point to current account activity.
Questions to answer before you react
- Does the message reference a real profile action or only broad promotional language?
- Does the phone number or email attached to the alert map cleanly to the person in question?
- Are there other signals that support the message instead of leaving it isolated?
A suspicious text can start an investigation, but it should not end it.
Turn the signal into a decision
Use texts as one data point, then validate through stronger signals before you turn the issue into a confrontation.
